Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Mirror, mirror...


Life moves on without looking back. We, however, do not. Our lives are sometimes consumed with life in the rearview mirror. How do we reclaim what we can see in there? How do we rebuild what seems lost?
Why do we want to? To escape to the past means we can escape from the future or the present. Pour a cup of hot tea and settle into your favorite chair. Why tea, you ask, why not alcohol or soda or water? Tea warms you and soothes the ragged edges of your day without overwhelming either your senses or your brain as other choices can. So, pour the tea and sit. Hold the cup with both hands, close to your face. Allow the steam to warm your face, breath deep the aroma rising from the cup. At first the smell is one smell, indecipherable. Then you begin to divide it into other familiar strains. What is that, orange, or citrus? What does that remind you of?
Consider your day beginning with 1 minute ago, working backwards to the beginning when the sun first caught your eye. Allow your mind to continue its travel backwards to as many days as you wish. Where does it take you? What is happening "there" when you arrive, stepping back into a moment in life that you witnessed once before. What was so important about that moment that it has drawn you back to visit again?

Once upon a time, when life moved more slowly. Days were long and filled with chores that never seemed to end because no one hurried from one task to the next, but each took time to finish the job begun.
Neighbors were sometimes nosy, but mostly they were your best friend, an emergency babysitter and a confident you could count on when trouble came knocking at your door.
You had time to finish your cup of tea while it was still hot. There was no need for insulated cups to counteract the interruptions. There was security in that. Tea, the drink that quenched your thirst on a warm day and warmed you when the wind blew cold. It calmed your nerves and brightened your day, soothing all your cares away. Where are those days now?